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Achieving Self - control with Autism

Self - discipline is a skill that most autistic children have trouble acquiring. This includes not only inappropriate outbursts, but also habits that can be potentially dangerous, such as being aggressive towards others or causing harm to themselves, such as banging their heads off walls.

To prevent these and other behaviours, one technique parents and educators can use to control autistic tendencies is self - management. Giving the child power over him - or herself is often the key to keeping control over violent situations and may be a positive step towards learning other behaviours as well.

Self - management works because the child is no longer fully controlled by others. By teaching self - management during specific times of day, such as while the child is at school or therapy, the child will be more likely to continue to practicing self - control during all times of the day. The key is to implement a program in which he or she monitors his or her own behaviour and activities.

Begin with short amounts of time, and continue to monitor the child from a more passive standpoint. Every ten to fifteen minutes remind the child that he or she is in control and needs to monitor and be aware of good and bad behaviour.

This monitoring is a form of self - evaluation. When a child is in control, he or she may think more closely about behaviour in the past and present. Set clear goals with the child for example, an afternoon with no aggression towards others or a day at school with no self - injury.

Every fifteen minutes ask the child how he or she is doing. Is the goal being met? If the answer is no, perhaps the child is not ready for self - management, or perhaps the goals are too unattainable.

You want to make sure that the goals are easy to reach at first, and then move the child towards more difficult goals in the future. When a child is successful at self - monitoring, he or she will have a more positive attitude towards the experience.

Of course, an important part of self - management is a rewards system. Have the child come up with his or her own reward, depending on interest. Reinforcement will make these good behaviour goals more clearly marked in the child's mind, and by choosing and rewarding him - or herself, the child will feel completely in control of the self - management system.

Choose simple rewards to start, such as smiley faces for every goal met and sad faces for every goal not met, and work up to a larger goal, such as a special activity or new toy when a certain amount of smiley faces has been attained.

These types of programs do not develop overnight, so it is important that you and the child have enough time to devote to a self - management experience.

By reinforcing good behaviour with rewards, as determined by the child instead of by an adult, he or she will be more likely to carry this on even when not participating in the program. If your autistic child is mature enough, this could be a good treatment program to try.

About the author:
Ms. Talbert is a freelance writer and busy mother of three. For more information on autism and other health issues visit Healthy Moms at http://thehealthymoms.blogspot.com
 
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